I first heard about the following story yesterday so unlike many, I am a little behind the times.

Six people were arrested on charges after they were among hundreds of young partygoers who trashed a former NFL player’s vacation home, and police said more arrests were expected.

The arrests on Thursday came after former New England Patriots and Los Angeles Raiders offensive lineman Brian Holloway said he signed papers authorizing the Rensselaer County sheriff to bring charges in the Labor Day weekend party, which was attended by up to 400 teenagers.

Holloway said that among those charged was a young man he had taken into his family for a time as a homeless teen, who’s accused of organizing and promoting the party.  He said investigators have told him the number of people charged could end up in the hundreds as they work through the sheer volume of participants.

“Everyone that broke the law, I’m pressing charges against,” Holloway said. “The parents had a chance and students had a chance to come forward, and only four did.”

Holloway, who played offensive tackle for the Patriots and Raiders in the 1980s, gained national attention by reposting party pictures the teens had put on social media websites.  He said he posted them on the website helpmesave300.com in an effort to get the teens to come forward, take responsibility for their actions, and change their behavior.

Instead, he said, some parents were angry about his website and there was even a threatened lawsuit.

“I tried to be as accommodating as I could, but they took their stand by not showing up,” Holloway said.

The partiers caused at least $20,000 in damage to his rural vacation home near the Massachusetts border in Stephentown, including broken windows and holes in the wall.

Police said a ringleader of the party was 19-year-old Seth Hawk, the young man Holloway said he had taken into his family a few years ago.  Hawk, faces felony charges of burglary and criminal mischief, and misdemeanor charges of endangering the welfare of a child and unlawfully dealing with a child.  He’s accused of advertising the party and providing alcohol.

// Three of the other arrested people face felony charges including burglary and larceny, and two are charged with misdemeanors, including trespassing.  They range in age from 17 to 21.

Holloway said Hawk was a classmate of his son and had a troubled youth but found stability living as part of his family.

Now, I realize that there are more arrests coming and my personal hope is that all those who did not come forward should be arrested and given felony charges.  I would also like to see that each and every one who was at the party be required to reimburse Mr. Holloway to the tune of, at least, $1000.00.  This would hopefully make-up for the damages done to his property.

What bothers me the most about this is the fact that the vast majority of these kids and their parents, included, refused to step forward and take responsibility for the damages.  I do not care who did the damages…your kid was unlawfully trespassing on someone else’s property.  What a terrible example that these parents set for their children and I can see why they are breaking the law.  Children are taught character, honor, and integrity by example.  It is a sad state of affairs when parents do not possess these traits, much less their children.

To Mr. Holloway I have the following…kudos for trying to instill one of life’s lessons and sorry for your loss.  But, take faith in knowing that my adult children were taught better.